“The principle of freedom must be our first commitment, for without this no one is immune against the virus of aggrandizement – the impulse to grab power, wealth, position, or reputation at the expense of others.”
– Herbert Douglass – SourCE:The Cost Of Freedom
True freedom is a commitment to experiencing the very real limitations of our choices.
We will always have to live with some sort of, ‘what if I had…’ We will always have to mourn the limitless possibilities we didn’t pursue. If we had no choice about our life we’d simply get on with it, but because we do, we live in constant fear of making the wrong one.
That’s the price we pay for the freedom of choice.
We have to live with the consequences of our actions. We have to live in the knowledge we could have done things differently. To know we could have done things better.
I wonder if many of us don’t actually want the level of responsibility that comes with having to choose our own fate? Perhaps this is why so many of us prefer to be told what to do? Perhaps this is why so many of us choose not to think for ourselves?
It’s too uncomfortable.
We don’t want to take responsibility for our life. We didn’t have to as children so why should we now?
Many recent decisions we’ve made in the “free” parts of this world demonstrate an unwillingness to take on this fundamental aspect of freedom. We follow the herd because it’s easier. We follow the herd because that’s what our parents taught us to do.
I imagine that living in a society where your thoughts and actions are decided for you is in some ways easier. You don’t have to think about what to do. When your survival depends on the actions that the state has demanded, you just do. So you become another brain washed cog in the totalitarian machine. Just as your dictator ordered. There’s a nice little cog.
The sad truth about such a life is you still have responsibilities. They’re just not your own.
You cannot escape responsibility.
Many of us falsely belief that freedom comes with the freedom not to have any responsibilities. How we love to have our cake and eat it too! We say, ‘if only I choose the right leader then I’ll be able to achieve financial independence free from having to try at anything.’
Delusion is a word.
Delusion is what’s sold to you by populists who promise the world free of charge. They promise you the things that only you can deliver for yourself.
There’s a huge price that comes with freedom, incalculable in fact – millions have died for it – but I believe the rewards justify it. Yes the possibility of failure is real, but so is the possibility of achieving greatness. We should remember that humans don’t flourish under the conditions of compulsion – we flourish under the conditions of free co-operation.
It’s hard to shift through the noise of course. It’s extremely hard in fact. To do the research required to figure out what your own opinions are on matters that affect us all. The rewards are not that you’ll have a leader you want or a country that reflects the values you hold either.
You probably won’t.
The reward is actually greater than that. The reward is that you get to know who you truly are. This is something your country and the world needs more than your vote. What we need is a diversity of unique voices speaking for themselves. What we don’t need is a tribe of mindless people echoing only the thoughts of one man.
Don’t be so quick to throw your freedom under the bus for someone else.
It’s important to remember that no two voices are the same. Freedom respects that fact. We should be extremely wary of those who seek to limit the voices of others. We should take the time to listen to what our own heart has to say. We should put in the effort to form our own opinions. We should honour them with the choices we get to make.
I read a quote recently by Niklas Göke from his excellent article Responsibility Is Freedom that said,
“Freedom is not about shedding your responsibilities, it’s about choosing them.”
I would go a step further and say that freedom demands we choose our responsibilities. The same way that having a life demands we protect it. If you want freedom of choice then you have to choose to take responsibility for your life. If you don’t someone else will choose your responsibilities for you. The danger is they will use that for their own profit and power by forming a narrative you refused to take responsibility for forming yourself. In doing so they will shut your mind from your heart. The moment that happens, you’ve lost your freedom.
Thank you all for taking the time to read. As always I’m interested to get your thoughts. What do you think about the relationship between freedom and responsibility? Have we taken our freedoms for granted in the Western world? Is this why we find it under threat? Do you even believe it is under threat? Do you think that freedom has nothing to do with responsibility? As always I welcome ALL opinions and thoughts. This is very much a free state.
I really liked your insight on this… I believe that sometimes it’s the other way around.. You need more freedom to fulfill your responsibility in a better way with the job in hand…
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That’s an excellent point! I agree. It’s difficult to fulfil my responsibilities as a father if a lack of money forces me to work 24/7. You need the freedom in the first place. Survival has to come first of course which for many precludes the freedom in which to choose their responsibilities! I think if you’re fortunate enough to have such freedom it’s even more important you take the responsibility for it seriously for that reason. Thank you for stopping by 🙏
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Yes, completely agree… Your posts are very deep, contemplative.. It is my pleasure to read them…
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Thank you – that makes me very happy to hear you say Piyush. The feeling is mutual – very glad I found your blog. I look forward to many more conversations in the future 🙏
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Freedom brings responsibility. It’s not one I like. But I think we’re all blessed. To have the choice. True freedom is owning it.
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Hi Eliza. Taking responsibility can feel like a burden much of the time but it can also be very empowering. Ultimately more responsibility you take for your life the more freedom I believe you’ll have. As you say. The trick is owning it. Thanks for stopping by! 🙏
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Omg wow
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AP2, I liked the part where you talked about those who didn’t grow up with responsibility not being willing to accept it now. Good parenting involves allowing children the freedom to make some mistakes and learning to accept greater responsibilities as they grow. All the best! Cheryl
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Thank you Cheryl! I agree. I believe you earn freedom by taking on more responsibility in life. That’s what I hope to teach my children. Freedom comes with the cost of taking responsibility for your mistakes. Kind regards, AP2
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“Freedom is not about shedding your responsibilities, it’s about choosing them.”
Love this!
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Me too – it’s absolutely spot on! Basically the inspiration for this post as well. Thanks for stopping by Chris 🙏
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The freedom to choose ultimately gives us the responsibility to make a decision. That decision we base it on a series of rational thought, judgements, opinions but finally when all is set and done we tend to make a snap judgment. Often under great pressure and emotional blackmail. I believe thats why we need to give our instincts a say in every decision we make because when you are in tune with your intuitive side you can tap into its wisdom and it helps in decision making.
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Yes good point. Learning to trust yourself and your gut is important- esp in the current age of disinformation and sad sickening smear campaigns. But fact checking information has never been more important either. Thanks for stopping by Francis and sorry I don’t have my usual 4321 post this week. I wanted to put out this freedom post because of election. It’ll be back next week. Wishing you well 🙏
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You read my mind. Here I was carefully going through your posts looking for it haha! “This can’t be right” I said to myself. Anyways, this was a wonderful reminder of our responsibilities with freedom and freedom to choose our responsibilities.
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Cheers brother. I thought this week the topic deserved special attention. Looks like Biden might win after all – thank Christ. There is hope yet but we all must continue to fight for our future and our freedoms. We cannot just sit on hope. We must use it to take action. Wishing you peace and strength in the days ahead 🙏
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Thank you. I wish you the best of everything you have presence in.
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Yeah I too agree with that..freedom of choice owes responsibility ..👍🏻💯
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Thank you – I appreciate your comment 🙏
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