Hello lovely readers and welcome back to Mindset Mondays! The only weekly post that enjoys eating its own words.
Following a 3-2-1 approach, it contains 3 thoughts from me (that you should ignore), 2 quotes from others (that you should read), and 1 thing I’ve been reading, watching or listening to this week that has helped me grow.
As a bonus I’ve finished with 1 joke that’s so bad, it’s good.
3 x Thoughts:
1) Emotions are like tunnels. You have to go through them in order to get to the light on the other side. Resist and you’ll end up stuck in the dark.
2) As a rule: The dumber the question feels, the more it needs to be asked. The only real fool is the one who deliberately remains in the dark.
3) A wining formula for life: Radical Acceptance followed by Meaningful Action.
2 x Quotes:
“In this world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it.”
— Oscar Wilde
“When the starting point is self-love and self-appreciation, we already give ourselves what we need so we don’t need to try to take it from people.”–Betul Erbasi (SOURCE: https://pointlessoverthinking.com/2021/05/30/self-appreciation/)
1 x Thing:
This BBC article: Why some narcissists actually hate themselves. The article argues that narcissists – far from loving who they are – actually suffer from issues related to self-hatred. It suggests that this understanding can help us see through their actions and foster compassion for them instead. Well worth the quick read!
1 x Joke:
Another far side comic for you all this week, I hope you enjoy!
Thanks ladies and gentlemen, I’m here all week! As always I welcome ALL thoughts and opinions on this blog. Please let us know in the comments section below.
One bonus question: How can you make your actions more meaningful today?
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